I know that I do this often (and am working on that), so it’s always a good reminder. Something to definitely keep in the back of your mind when figuring out menus and travel logistics for the upcoming holiday season, no matter what you are celebrating (personally, we celebrate Christmas).
Nothing needs to be “Martha Stewart acceptable”. What’s important is spending time with those you love.
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So true! This past weekend we had a Christmas party for our son, and I made all of these activities for them to do…but it was so chaotic that it was impossible to do them. Eventually I eased into the chaos and just let the kids enjoy their insanity, and all was well. I resolved to “not think” too hard next year!
Thanks for the post.
Good for you, for “listening” to what was happening and easing into the chaos. Sounds like it was a great party!